Monica:
Listen, I've got some killer stuff on me. I mean it is the
bomb. You want to try some?
Henry: Oh, no. I know you
probably think I'm a nerd but I'm proud to be drug free.
Monica: Oh, you believe all
that garbage they told you in school. Look, our own president --
Barack Obama, the one everybody adores even admitted to using weed and
cocaine when he was younger. All kids do it. My sister is the
director of the Rehab Clinic here. She's the one who gives me this
stuff and she knows what's good and what's not.
Henry: How does she know that?
Monica: Like I said, she's the director
of the clinic.. She gets what she wants and she only takes the stuff
that's safe and a great high. She uses it herself.
Henry: Wait a minute! Your sister
is director of a Rehab Clinic and she does drugs!?
Monica: Shhh! I don't want
the world to know about it. Everyone will be after her. When
you work for the government, you're privledged to such amenities.
They just don't want the -- you know -- undesirable stupid kids who don't
know how to use it to suddenly wind up in the hospital, that's all.
If my sister was here right now, we'd be halfway finished with this
joint because she'll just start smoking it and it you don't want to get
high, she doesn't want you ruinging hers.
Henry: (dumbfounded) And she works for a
Rehab Clinic. Wow! That's -- that's like... fucked up or
something. I duuno.
Monica: It's not. When you
come from my family, you're in touch with the real world. My Dad is
a high ranking admnistration who's responsible for the drug policy
legislation. You know, the US Code of Law. You know what that
is?
Henry: Yes. Sorts -- but-- well,
not really all that much.
Monica (lighting joint, takes inhales
and holds it in after counting on her fingers for Henry how long she can
hold it) See That! 30 seconds. And oh my
God...! (acts giddy and become very sassy and seductive after
handing the joint over to Henry).
Henry: (holding the joint, Monica shows
him how to inhale) I know how to do this. I mean I hang out
with the guys who smoke it every morning. I just never had a reason
to use it until now.
(Once the joint touches Henry's lips,
he's under Monica's control. From then on, the stage is set. A few
weeks later, Monica introuces other drugs that she allegedly gets from her
sister. Henry is overwhelmed as his summer vacation becomes one long
party that never ends. Since Henry's parents aren't always around,
it's just a matter of time before luck holds out and Henry finds himself
busted along with his newfound friends. ) |
Monica:
Listen, I've got some killer stuff on me. I mean it is the
bomb. You want to try some?
Henry: I'd much rather get to know you
better and save that for a more appropriate time. Have you ever been
windsurfing?
Monica: You're kidding,
right? Windsurfing is for nerds.
Henry: Hey I like to be physically
active. Nerds aren't physically active. They're
bookworms. My Dad showed me how to windsurf and I can teach you.
Monica: How about a joint first?
Henry: (laughs)
Monica: What the hell is so damn
funny?
Henry: You are. You're a
pothead, aren't you? You smoke that shit all the time. Right?
Monica: No! I don't!
My sister she's the director of the Rehab Clinic here and she-
Henry:: -- Should know better and
you should too.
Monica: But she says it's okay.
Look, our own president admitted to using cocaine and marajuana many times
when he was growing up and it didn't do anything to him.
Henry: Monica, I have nothing
against drugs, but if getting to know you depends on smoking a joint, then
I'd rather not get to know you.. I said that maybe tonight we could
smoke some but not in the middle of the afternoon. We just
met. Shoudln't we get to know one another without drugs first?
If not, then I might never get a chance to know the real you.
Monica: (frustration) You know nothing
about drugs.
Henry: (Rattleing off some
impressive information he's learned since he was in kindergarten and then
starts to walk away.)
Monica: (Thinking, she runs after
Henry): Henry! Wait a minute. You're right. I
don't need this joint. I want to get to know you better.
You mean much more than some weed. I'm sorry. I really
want to go windsurfing. Please.
Henry: (Puts his arms around
Monica and kisses her for almost a minute. Monica never felt a kiss
like that) Time for windsurfing.
(By that night, Monica has forgotten all
about MaryJane. It becomes unimportant in her life and when the two
start dating, all her friends are envious. They may not stop smoking
weed and using drugs, but with Henry's influence on the community, they
learn to control abuse.
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No one becomes a
drug "addict" overnight unless it is an intentional change in
someone's life. For example, a teenager goes on summer vacation,
somone he or she meets introduces drugs on the first day and comes around
every day with drugs thereafter. That would constitute an
intentional "addiction". Summers are short and the
addiction can be short-lived. A summer vacation is too short a
period for a dependency to develop. But how it starts will be a good
measure of how it will end. In the parallel stories of Monica and
Henry, the first Henry fears marajuana, making it taboo. To overcome
the fear, Henry has no choice but to plunge into it.
Anti-drug disorder (ADD2) might be
effective in delaying the actions of the teenager from administering the
drug, but it will not stop the teen completely. Even in 2009, the
only response that ADD2 provides is "No". Sure, we might
educate young people to know what the drug looks like and how it is
abused, but the objective of ADD2 is not about teaching a student how to
"Use" the drug responsibly, or intelligent ways to avoid even
using the drug that will impress the one who offers it. In fact, if
every student was trained on DUE, the likelihood of two teens having such
encounter as the one above would be near zero.
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In the
above second version of the story, Henry is already seasoned about
drugs. He knows what Monica is going to say because in the classroom
he's practiced engaging in conversations with various students and he
knows just what to say. It's not indoctrination though. It
comes from deep inside the limbic system in Henry's brain. It's
something he formulated himself based on what he learned.
What Henry does in the second version is to
take control rather than be controlled. He doesn't just say no to
drugs, he says that the present time is not the right time. Many
young people start using drugs because they learn from adults or
friends. They hear people like our president admit to using cocaine
and marajuana and they now think it's okay to use drugs. What
prompts them to use drugs sooner rather that later are the organizations
which want to make the world drug-free. There is a fear among young
and even older people that one day they will wake up and these drugs won't
be there anymore, so if they want to use them they must start now.
The premature abuse of drugs is a scourge in our society. It
createsaddiction and dependency and leads to a lifetime enslaved by
drugs. The fear of being without them is so real and pervasive, but
there are no alternatives other than ones which enforce treatment and or
punishment. No one is saying: You can use drugs and have a happy,
healthy life, but there are millions who have. |